by Stephanie Morrill
Stephanie writes young adult contemporary novels and is the creator of GoTeenWriters.com. Her novels include The Reinvention of Skylar Hoyt series (Revell) and the Ellie Sweet books (Playlist). You can connect with her on Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, and check out samples of her work on her author website including the free novella, Throwing Stones.
It’s my birthday, and I can’t help but think about the many, many things I’m grateful for. My husband, my kids, the Kansas City Royals, my job, etc.
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| Me and Erica Vetsch at ACFW |
Something I’m continually grateful for are great friends who are also writers. My first writing friend was Erica Vetsch. We met at a writers conference in Florida back when I was so green I didn’t know about business cards, that there were organizations like RWA, ACFW, and SCWBI, or that dialogue tags were not necessary for every line.
While Erica and I did sometimes critique for each other, what really mattered was the support. When I didn’t final in a contest, she encouraged me. When the publishing house passed on my book, she told me how much she still believed in it. And after years of being a lonely writer, that meant so much to me.
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| Carole, Mary, me, and Roseanna. Our original critique group, which was formed in 2007 but eventually split as our needs diversified. Sadly, Mary passed away in 2010. |
The next writer friend I made was Roseanna White. We met at ACFW (thanks to Erica!) and bonded over our identical taste in briefcases, our mutual baby bumps, and our similar ages. Roseanna and I have buoyed each other through rejections and hairpin turns in our careers that we never would have expected. We helped each other through the tricky season of writing with babies and toddlers underfoot. While we do still critique for each other and help brainstorm, again it’s more about having someone who encourages you when the writing day is rough and cheers for you when it’s good.
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| Me and Betsy St. Amant (Hey, Jill, you’re in the background! I think this is right before we became buds!) |
I could also talk about Jill Williamson, Shannon Dittemore, Betsy St. Amant, Jenny B. Jones, Melanie Dickerson, Nicole O’Dell, Sally Bradley, my fellow Playlist Fiction authors, and many others who have provided an important writing community, but I’ll get to the point.
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| Me and Jill at the ACFW awards gala (color coordination unplanned!) |
Many of you have sent me emails asking for a way to find critique partners. Since we’re not able to have a Go Teen Writers Conference, we’re going to try a “critique partner match up” of sorts.
Below is a form that we’ve created in hopes that we can help you meet a writer friend or two. We (Jill and I) have been in many critique groups of varying success, so we’ve given lots of thought to what made groups a success.
If you’re interested, you can fill out the form. As we get responses, we’ll try our best to match you up according to your preferences. Will it work out for everybody? We hope so, but we know from experience that some groups and partners will click and flourish while others won’t. Some might work for a time but eventually fade away. That’s just how it goes with critique relationships.
But our hope is that at least some of you will make a great new writing friend, and that all of you will grow through the process.