Do you ever think about how you got to where you are right now? I’m an introspective person, so I chew on stuff like this a lot.

Lately, I’ve been thinking about my time in publishing and how it was I decided to pursue storytelling as a career. I’ve been reminding myself of those stepping stones. The moments that turned my head, moved my feet, and had me going in a different direction.

THIS direction.

We don’t often recognize those flashes of life for what they are when they present themselves. Sometimes it isn’t clear for years that we’ve begun a journey of sorts. But when we look back, those stones shimmer with secrets and purpose and, if we’re lucky, we see them for the magic portal they are.

For me, one of these stepping stones materialized at an office party in Portland, Oregon.

It was my first week at a new job, and it happened to be someone’s birthday. To celebrate, the entire office went out to Applebee’s. I didn’t know a single soul, so I sat silent, observing, honing my people watching skills. It wasn’t long before one rather feisty individual demanded the table’s attention.

I’d never met her before, but I recognized her as one of the secretaries from down the hall. And man, was she heated.

You see, her son’s teacher was reading Harry Potter to the class.

Clearly, CLEARLY, she had a problem with this book and she wanted everyone to hear how she handled the situation. To be honest, I was mortified by her actions–but also a little curious.

What kind of children’s book could inspire such passion?

This was years ago and the Harry Potter phenomenon hadn’t yet reached its fever pitch, so I knew very little about the stories. I certainly hadn’t read them.

But you can bet I walked out of Applebee’s with a mission. I needed to know: are these books about a boy wizard going to have the same effect on me that they did on her?

For the record, no, they didn’t. In fact, they reminded me just why I like make-believe, why I put so much stock in story. They reminded me that imagination has value. For kids and grown-ups alike.

After that, I read the books as quickly as they came out. And while I was waiting for the next book and the next, I trolled the shelves for other children’s books. It was like a whole new section of the bookstore had opened up to me, and I had the angry Applebee’s lady to thank.

Looking back, I know: it was that moment that led me back to children’s literature. Who knew that a little over a decade after this gal’s lunchtime tirade, I’d have three young adult books on the shelf with more on the way?

It would have never crossed my mind at the time. But she formed an important moment for me; she opened a portal. And I am forever grateful.

How about you? When you look back do you see any shimmering stepping stones? Moments that led you to pursue storytelling?